The past year: Father-in-law, a veteran A-shares investor, returns: +30% Brother-in-law trading Nasdaq stocks, returns: +55% Wife, who loves buying gold jewelry for fun, returns: +85% As a seasoned crypto player, I went all-in on altcoins, returns: -66% I just want to ask, can I still be the first to pick up my chopsticks at the family dinner this New Year like before?