The core of flirting is to unleash value What value? Survival value and reproductive value. You didn't understand what I said, so it's all for nothing. Many people always like to tell me different techniques, one technique at a time. Everyone knows that when discussing a topic, Bo Lijun always hits the nail on the head. When we talk about anything, we must think around the core and essence. Dating is essentially no different from pursuing a career or making money/trading. When you make money, you are in love; when you pursue a career, you are in love. When you understand this statement, you become. The specific action of making money is to shape value, promote, and then others will foot the bill, that's all. There aren't so many fancy things, and it's just a constant cycle, constantly selling and selling. I'm good at Internet, and I'm good at making money on the Internet. Let me tell you, marketers are all about value building. You launch a product, constantly shape its value, and then release value, promote it, and attract others to pay for it. That's the truth, it's simple, there aren't so many twists and turns, and you need to know that you're providing value with dignity. You are only promoting to better realize the value, there is no contradiction. Many things actually have no price anchor, because valuable people create value and shape it, and it naturally has true value. Before starting to sell something, no one knows how much it is worth, but when you really make it good and sell it well, it naturally has that high value. It's like a table of good dishes. You sell raw materials in the supermarket, and the price is the original price of the dishes. But when you make a table of good dishes, match it with a good dining atmosphere, and reach the value point in people's hearts, you naturally have a good price. This is value shaping. Dating is the same, it's about value building, then promotion, and finally "closing deals". What is value shaping? It is your survival value and reproductive value. The value of survival is that you have the ability to make money, the ability to pursue a career, and the value of reproduction is whether you are handsome or not, whether your body is healthy or not, and whether your figure is good or not. If everything is good, promote it and naturally someone will "make a deal". It's just going around and around, that's all. Many people think too complicated and become stupid, and they can never figure it out after going around. Money can test a person's intelligence. A person's understanding of money, especially their understanding of earning money, almost completely determines their quality of life. A person who truly knows how to make money must be a master of understanding human nature, so he must not be inferior in terms of emotions. In my opinion, a person who doesn't pursue a career, doesn't make money, and is afraid to talk about survival and materialism is doomed. They can't see the truth of the world at all. In fact, investing in BTC and gold is essentially based on the logic of "grasping core values and long-term persistence", which fully conforms to the underlying logic of making money and accumulating survival value. More importantly, the two are complementary configurations: BTC tends to have growth elasticity and can amplify wealth appreciation space in the long run; Gold tends to be defensive and stable, and can hold its capital in extreme markets. This combination of fixed investment is like adding double insurance to survival value, without worrying about timing or being biased by market sentiment, just accumulating around the essence of "scarcity preservation". This is completely consistent with the logic of making money and pursuing a career: do not engage in superficial activities, identify core values, persist in doing the right things for a long time, and naturally realize profits in time. Those who always rely on short-term skills to speculate on BTC and the rise and fall of gold are actually not seeing through the essence. Like those who only play tricks and ignore their own value in love, they ultimately cannot go far.